Fighting

Everyone hates to get in a fight with a good friend.
The best thing to do when someone is mad at you is to go to them first. They will tell you the real reason why something is bothering them. And if you go to other people first they can mislead you and possibly tell you the wrong reason why your friend is upset.
A good friend will appreciate that you came to them first. And try to be openminded when they tell you what the problem is!

Self image

I have recently noticed how terrible teen girls self esteem's are. It is terrible to hear and see how the majority of girls think are bodies are disgusting. Wherever I go: school, shopping etc. I constantly hear young girls calling themselves fat and ugly and many other diminishing terms that lower themselves. We need to all desprately need to realize that the girls and gorgeous skinny models we see literally EVERYWHERE is a fake portrayal of beauty. Every model in a magazine has gone through extensive photoshop remake of her face. The initial picture looks nothing like the finished product, they remove any blemish on the face, make the eyes "pop", narrow the cheek bones, add color, add artificial hair, air brush the body, remove any "unattractive fat". These are only some of the processes that a picture goes through to perfect it. Girls need to come to love their bodies and not constantly surround themselves with the skanky magazines. They make us girls dislike all the things about our bodies that we can't perfect like the computers can.

The best solution to creating a positive self image is to STOP constantly surrounding yourself with the twisted image of beauty we see in the media and realize you are beautiful. This is a hard thing to do but when you succeed it can very well change your life.

Also, we need to stop putting ourselves down. If we stop saying were ugly (which is not true:) and stop dwelling on so called "negative" features then we will be at peace with our bodies and our lives.
Please watch the following video!

How to tell...

When a guy likes you there are many ways they can act to express their feelings:
1. He could act like the immature schoool/elementary kid, and be mean to you...
2. He might pay extra attention to you...
3. He might also be extremely shy...
Girls must be carefull though, becasue we can make things seem like a big deal when they're not. For instance when a guy holds the door for you or talks to you, some girls will automatically think this means that the guy likes them. Then they will go through the heartbroken phase when they realize he is not interested. That's why it is best to just let the guy do the work. And let the situation take care of itself.

Girl troubles.

Recently, I received a comment from a follower called "a very ugly name" (literally)
He shared that he had feelings for a girl, but he wasnt sure if she knew how he felt. This is very common, some guys are afraid to talk to their "crush" for fear of being regected. The first step is to start talking with her, this will hint that you find intrest in her. (Girl's are good at reading in between the lines) If she seems comfortable with you this is a good sign, If she seems repelled and scared out of her mind, i suggest you leave her be, because your doing more harm than good. The best thing is to be honest with your emotions and tell her straight up that you like her. This will show her that you are serious and not just flirting. After this the worst mistake you could make is to pressure her for an answer right away. Give the situation time. And hope for the best but you must be accepting if it doesn't work out the way you want it to. That's life. (Sorry kind of harsh)

Getting Started

Ever since I was a kid I tried to give advice. My sister is 5 years older than me so I was constantly hearing about her crazy boy crushes and "brokenheart phases". I considered myself a proffesional vent cushion. Although what I suggested to her usually got an unpleasant remark in return, i kept listening.
I like to think that giving advice to the 'wondering" helps to widen their perspectives, and in the long run to find a solution.
I also find it fun to answer silly questions.
:)
Ill try my best to answer questions and give advice on subjects I have a passion for.